Check out the wedding songs on my site: It's Not Me, To Be Free, Our Garden, Home in Your Eyes, Your Beauty's In Christ. They're not all about deflecting responsibility, but some are. And see if you can find any metaphorical references to sex. 

For a few weeks last year, I felt like the Spirit flowed through my hands to the journal on my lap. Barb and I had taught a course on heaven, I was pondering death and misery, and God gave me these little pictures of what it might be like to wake up in the New Earth. Remembering what was, noticing differences, and imagining futures.

Check out First Moments in Heaven - Senses, Relationships, Memories, God, Laughter, and Suffering. But don't ponder these reflections too much if you're tempted to shorten your time here. It will be worth the wait and longing.